I Give Her Space

I have to say, that the other morning, I was fortunate enough to catch an extraordinary story about 96-year-old U.S. District Judge Honorable Robert W. Sweet. But since I know you have a life and better shits to do, I’ll make this story nice, short and like the judge… Sweet. Twice a week to stay fit, he is coached by an Olympic ice dancer. But the thing that really got my attention was, when he tells the story as to why he doesn’t skate with his wife, even though she’s the avid ice dancing fan who gave him the skates as a birthday gift, when he was in his 70’s.

Anyways, my point is, that even though my wife and I have been together for 31 years, I always make sure that she has her space. Why? Because the same way that I have my hobby and interests that she doesn’t give a flying fuck about, she has her own interests and things that I don’t give a flying fuck about either. I’ve heard of some men who are offended when their wives or girlfriends ask for some space. But I think that they feel like that, because they take it the wrong way. That never happened with me, because I always knew, that no matter how much a couple loves each other, it doesn’t mean that they have to be together 24/7/365. Food for thought my homies and homettes… food for thought. 

With that said! I am Audi 5000 y’all!

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My Age Vs My Maturity

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First things first my homies and homettes! Wherever you are in this crazy, funny, insane, strange and weird planet of ours, good morning, good afternoon, good evening or good night. As always, try to enjoy your day to the fullest and remember not to let nobody fuck it up for you no matter what goes down.

Sometimes I just like to throw everything in the garbage and start fresh all over again. In case you have been wondering, that has been the case with this blog many times. The only explanation that I have for my behavior is, that my mind works in mysterious ways that I might never ever understand, and sometimes I just go along with it, because at the time, it might look like a good idea. Keep in mind that look and is are two different words with two different meanings.

On a birthday note, on Friday October 19, 2018, I turned forty-nine years old. YES! YES! YES! I KNOW! I’m one year away from THE BIG FIVE O. The truth is, that I have always looked at age as just a number. Like they say Age does not measure maturity“. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I have learned and changed a lot as a husband, father, brother, friend, neighbor, co-worker and human being. I Just know that none of it had to do with my age, it all had to do with what I have experienced in life as a whole. But don’t worry about it, because the changes have been for the best. I feel that right now, compared to many years ago, I have more patience, I am more caring, tolerant and understanding. Now don’t get it all wrong and look at it as a sign of weakness, it doesn’t mean that I let people walk all over me, It just means that I try to understand where people are coming from and why they behave the way that they do. For some weird reason, I’ve always liked analyzing people, so sometimes, I tell my wife jokingly, that I should have been a shrink. Can you imagine that! LMFAO!

With that said! I am  Audi 5000 y’all!